Disclaimer: I am not a licensed grief counselor or mental health professional. The insights and stories I share through The Retired Widow are based on my personal experiences and are for encouragement and informational purposes only. Please seek support from a qualified mental health provider for guidance specific to your situation.
Simple Joys
Discover the simple joys that matter most after loss. From retail therapy to true gratitude, this heartfelt reflection from The Retired Widow explores healing, comfort, and finding happiness in everyday moments.
The Paradox of the Holidays
Discover how The Retired Widow finds healing, love and acceptance amid the changing emotions of the holiday season.
The Multitasking Myth
This post challenges the myth of multitasking, revealing it as a drain on energy, creativity, and true accomplishment. Through personal stories—including a two-weekend run in The Music Man—the author shares how focusing on one task at a time brought more mastery, pride, and joy to daily life. From cleaning the kitchen to taking a well-earned nap, each completed task becomes a small victory. The takeaway? Let go of the pressure to do everything at once, and instead, be the master of your moments.
Busier Than I Thought I’d Be
I used to think retirement meant endless relaxation — slow mornings, empty calendars, and coffee in my pajamas until noon. But one year in, I’ve realized I’m busier than ever! From 5:30 a.m. wake-ups to rehearsals, gardening, grocery deliveries, and even launching The Retired Widow YouTube channel, my days are full — and wonderfully so. My dad always said retirement would keep you on your toes. Turns out, he was right.
Oh The Weather Outside is Frightful …
It’s mid-July, it’s hot as Hades, and yet here I am — already thinking about Christmas. As a retired widow on a fixed income, I’ve learned the holidays don’t just “happen” — they require planning, intention, and a little humor. From creative gift-giving to protecting my peace, I’m starting now (yes, in July!) to make this holiday season joyful instead of stressful. Grab a cold drink and join me as I dream of a white Christmas… while sweating through summer.
Are You Prepared?
Life is full of unexpected moments—some joyful, some heartbreaking. In this post, Bethanne reflects on what it truly means to be prepared: financially, emotionally, and spiritually. From caregiving to widowhood to grandparenting on short notice, she shares how planning ahead has helped her navigate life’s biggest challenges with grace.
A Day Among Rockets: A Birthday Adventure at the U.S. Space & Rocket Center
It all begins with an idea.